The word “Quinceañera” refers to two things. It’s the word that describes the coming of age ritual where a young girl renews her baptismal promises and is presented to her community as a young lady, and it also refers to the young girl whom is being celebrated.

A traditional Quinceañera is typically celebrated around the girl’s 15th birthday and is celebrated with a party and a mass, with the latter being of more spiritual value since it is the Quinceanera’s presentation before God and her community, and a promise to honor herself and her religion.

In order to understand a Quinceañera mass, it is important to know that unlike a baptism or confirmation, a Quinceañera is not a Catholic sacrament. However, it is a significant cultural ritual within the Hispanic community that solidifies the Quinceañera’s commitment to her faith. During the Quinceañera mass, the young girl receives Holy Communion, makes an act of consecration to the Virgin Mary, gifts the Virgin Mary with a bouquet of flowers, and receives gifts that are blessed by the priest.

Like the baptism and confirmation sacraments, different symbolic rituals represent the Quinceañera’s rite of passage from childhood into womanhood. The Bible, Quinceañera crown, floral bouquet and the people that accompany her, all hold spiritual meaning during the religious ceremony.

Preparing for the Quinceañera Mass
But before the mass takes place, a traditional Quinceañera requires that the celebrated attend preparatory classes in her parish to help her prepare for this important time in her life. Requirements for the preparation courses vary from parish to parish, but for the most part require that the celebrated be baptized, had received her first Communion and be enrolled or be finished with her confirmation classes. Some courses are designed for both the soon-to-be Quinceañera and her parents, while others simply require the celebrated to attend on her own. Although most preparatory classes are weekly courses that last a few months, some parishes hold extensive yearlong classes and others require attending only a one-time seminar. Once all the requirements are met, the date for the mass can be set and the first planning steps such as choosing the Quinceañera’s court may begin.

Choosing the Padrinos and Quinceañera court
Typically, the padrinos (also referred to as “sponsors”) are chosen for being a stable, married couple that will ideally serve as mentors for the young girl. Their main role as padrinos is to help keep the young girl on a path of spirituality and guide her into becoming a positive contributor to her community.

The chambelan de honor, or the “escort of honor”, is a young man that is chosen to be the Quinceañera’s date for the day. His role is an important one as well, since he symbolizes the Quinceañera’s first male companion as a young lady. An older brother, cousin or friend of the celebrated typically fills the role of the chambelan. In traditional ceremonies, a court of seven couples also accompanies the Quinceañera. Like the chambelan, the seven couples are usually 13 to 18-year-old friends and family of the Quinceañera who represent her social community.

The religious ceremony
Come the day of the celebration, the Quinceañera mass begins with a group progression into the church. Escorted by her parents or guardians, the Quinceañera leads the walk followed by her padrinos, the chambelan and the court. A priest greets the Quinceañera at the altar where a designated chair has been placed for her at the altar as well.

Unlike a typical Sunday mass where the biblical readings are directed for the entire congregation, in a Quinceañera mass the reading is made, for the most part, directly to the celebrated. Themes of youth, eternal love to God, becoming a strong woman, and remaining true to her religion against all adversity are customary topics for a Quinceañera mass.

Symbolisms in the mass
During the mass, the traditional Quinceañera crown (tiara), Bible, rosary, jewelry and bouquet of natural roses hold special significance. Usually following the first gospel, the priest blesses these items and makes reference to the Bible and rosary as symbolizing the eternal word of God, and the crown as symbolizing the crown of life that God gifts the Quinceañera.

Another symbolical part of the mass is the act of consecration to the Virgin Mary. This is when the Quinceañera takes her bouquet of natural flowers and gifts it to the Virgin Mary by placing it at her altar. It is there where in prayer, the Quinceañera asks the Virgin Mary for guidance and strength and vows to follow in her footsteps as a giving and caring woman.

Upon returning to her seat at the altar, the Quinceañera is given a bouquet of flowers by her padrinos to replace the one she offered the Virgin Mary. This bouquet is made of artificial flowers purposely done so to serve the Quinceañera as a keepsake for years to come.

The Eucharist and the Holy Communion then follow, and the Quinceañera mass is completed with a final blessing and a round of applause for the Quinceañera’s baptismal renewal.

The progression out of the church
Unlike the walk into the church where the Quinceañera is escorted by her parents, it is the chambelan de honor that accompanies her down the aisle and out the temple. Her parents, padrinos and Quinceañera court follow her exit.

Once outside, the Quinceañera exchanges embraces with her guests and takes pictures with them and her priest. Also customary after the mass is for the Quinceañera, her parents, padrinos, closest friends and family members to visit a park or public place for the official Quinceañera portraits. During this time, all other guests are thanked by the Quinceañera’s parents for accompanying them to the religious mass and are encouraged to rejoin them at the dinner reception later that afternoon.


  • Catherine Barnea

    I’m not Mexican I’m Hispanic from Venezuela and my family doesn’t do that in the church we were just thinking of doing the party and the father daughter dance and a surprise dance that’s it and then dinner we weren’t going to do the a quinceanera mass is that OK or should I just have a sweet 16

    • XV Madrina

      Hi Catherine!

      Feel free to adapt your Quinceanera to fit your budget, style, personality and faith. This tradition has evolved with the years so there is no problem if you skip some traditions.

  • GreciaXV

    Hi Sophia,

    You can work your Quinceanera however you want to: with padrinos, without, with only a XV Madrina, damas, no damas, you get it!

  • Carmen0842

    Hello- I’m in the process of locating a church to perform a quince mass. I either need to be registered w/ the church which doesn’t work for me since the church that I’m registered with no longer performs quince’s OR pay a outrageous amount for the ceremony… does anyone have any ideas?

    • Grecia Hernandez

      Hi Carmen,

      Not all churches required you to be part of their congregation, if anything just meet them half way and try attending mass there during the planning of your fiesta to see if that makes things smoother.

    • GreciaXV

      Hi Carmen,

      Not all churches required you to be part of their congregation, if anything just meet them half way and try attending mass there during the planning of your fiesta to see if that makes things smoother.

  • Isabella

    Thank you so much!! My daughters only 11 but I have to start planning! She is so excited because she’s adopted from Guatemala and its in her culture! So thank you so much! I love this website!!!

  • Carmen

    Hello, you have a fantastic website!
    I am a ceremony officiant and will be performing my very first Quinceanera Blessing. Since the ceremony I will be performing will not be held in a Church I was wondering if you had information about the order of the ceremony for a more modern but spiritual Quinceanera Blessing?

    • Grecia Hernandez

      Hi Carmen,

      Unfortunately we wouldn’t know. Quinceanera blessings are particular to each religion, faith and the girl and her families’ wishes, our best advice would be to talk it over with the family to see what there is they are expecting. Sorry about that!

  • manuel garcia

    In reality its used by many as just an excuse to party when in reality usually the girl only cares of how big and glamorous it can get ..and the parents feel obliged to give in.. a real girl that is.searching and seeking
    the Lord wouldnt even want one…renew your baptismal promises .by going to mass every sunday ..God bless us all

  • Jazmine

    But what if you’re Christian, and you would still like to have a mass, how exactly would that play out?

    • Grecia Hernandez

      Christian Quinceanera masses are a bit different actually, we will soon be covering that topic! Thanks Jazmine for bringing this up, we want to make sure we include every Quinceanera!

  • chenda

    Can the padrino be the father

    • Grecia Hernandez

      Your father is already be a super important figure in your life and Quince, you might want to honor someone else with such a role!

  • steph

    do you need to have your confirmation to have a quince because im doing one because i want one without any ceremony

    • Daniella Alejo

      Confirmation is required to have your quinceneara. Without the confirmation to the church you are still a child.

      • Rosie Salas

        Not true. My daughter is having her mass without her confirmation. She has to be in classes but those take 2 years before confirmation ceremony. As long as she is attending her classes the Quinceanera mass can be held. I didn’t do my confirmation until I was 18 and I did have my quince mass. Ask your church.

        • Blanca

          Per the diocese she must be enrolled in confirmation classes to be able to have a quinceañera. Keep in mind there are times where things can be a little different. Sometimes due to the church not having the staff available to go through with creating things.

    • Elena

      However, if you are not Catholic, and you just want a Quinceañera party, you can do that without the mass. You can have people who’ve helped you grow talk, and this way you can do it without having confirmation. This way, the quinceañera is just a celebration of your coming in to your own.
      Hope this helped!

      • Grecia Hernandez


  • emily

    can the padrinos be an older cousin and her husband?

    • Daniella Alejo


  • Rosa

    Do You Have To Have Just One Padrino As A Couple?????? :

    • alex


  • Ekacmedina

    How many padrinos are their? Just one couple?

    • Gaby

      From what ive heard and understand there can be more than one couple but im not absoulutley positive

      • hazel

        um normally its just a couple or 1 person but it all depends on wat u want

    • Gloria A. Crixell

      You can have as many padrinos as contributed to your quinceanera.
      Your court can be your padrinos without chambelanes
      Your court is your court you choose…it should not be more than 7 couples if you are replacing chambelanes with padrinos to be your court.

  • R-swizzle

    I love you.

    • R-swizzle

      I love you too.

  • Bob

    i disagree