What everyone should know about the customs of a Quinceañera
Let's start with the basics. Why is it expected that you celebrate a Quinceañera? Why is it such a significant event in Hispanic culture?
A Quinceañera party is intended to celebrate your transition from girlhood to womanhood. Everyone who has been a part of your life and has made an impact on you should be invited to witness this important event.
To embrace your roots, there are certain Quinceañera traditions that you can incorporate into your celebration to make it unique and unforgettable.
Hair and Makeup
Yes, even hair and makeup hold significant meaning. At 15, it will be the first time you wear makeup and shape your eyebrows. You don't have to go overboard with your appearance. We recommend opting for natural makeup instead of something dramatic, so you can showcase that youthful glow everyone is expecting at your Quinceañera.
The Last Doll
Do you remember playing with dolls when you were a child? You'll receive your last doll on the day of your Quince, symbolizing your need to mature and face greater responsibilities in this new stage of your life as an adult, leaving behind your toys. Don't be afraid; talk to your mom, grandmother, or older sister and ask for helpful advice to make your transition subtle. Meanwhile, enjoy the last moments you'll have to play with your doll collection.
Shoe Change
You've seen your mother wear high heels all these years. Now it's your turn! During your party, your father will change your flat shoes for heels in front of your guests. Remember to practice walking in heels before your big day.
Godparents
Remember, your Quinceañera isn't just a celebration for you, it's also for your family. Therefore, it would be an honor for them to contribute to your Quinceañera party. Asking may be stressful, but once you overcome it, you'll feel much better knowing you have your family's support. In turn, your parents will feel relieved to provide you with the Quinceañera of your dreams without excessive expenses.
The Mass
Your Quinceañera Mass is an essential component of your Quince party. This is your chance to thank the Lord for the experiences you've had as a child and to bless your life as a woman. Your family will also pray for a smooth transition for you.
The Toast
This might be the part of your Quinceañera that makes you the most nervous, especially if your public speaking skills aren't at their best. To help you, prepare your toast at least 2 weeks in advance. Remember to put your heart and soul into your speech to make everyone important in your life feel super special. You might shed some tears, but you'll be glad you did it once it's all over.
Leave your natural Quinceañera bouquet at the altar
If you are Catholic, the bouquet from your Quince is left at the altar in honor of the Virgin Mary. Create a beautiful bouquet that genuinely makes you happy when you give it away and share a reflective prayer before leaving the church.
The Waltz
Many Quinceañeras don't feel the true emotion of the transition until the moment of the waltz. During this part of the ceremony, you'll dance with your father to a song that means a lot to both of you. Most likely, your father will whisper memories or words of wisdom as you dance in front of everyone. It's a touching moment that all your guests will feel. Keep a tissue handy in case you shed some tears.
The White Dress
White usually signifies purity in various cultures. In Hispanic culture, it's expected that you arrive at the altar and present yourself as a virgin with a beautiful white Quinceañera dress.
You don't have to follow all the traditions
Your Quinceañera has to be a celebration you'll remember for the rest of your life. It's okay to add only the traditions that are most important to you. Every family is different in their beliefs, and nowadays, there are non-traditional options, such as choosing a Quince dress in a color other than white.
