Quinceañera Guest List: Who's in and Who's Out?

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One of the most important aspects of planning your Quinceañera is the guest list. Deciding who to include and who to leave out will shape many of your event planning decisions. Keep in mind that the cost of your celebration will largely depend on the number of guests—for example, the size of the venue, the amount of food, the cake, party favors, and of course, the number of invitations. Makes sense, right?

We understand that this can be a difficult decision, especially since it’s common in Latin culture to want to invite all friends and family. Often, we do this because we don’t want anyone to feel left out. Even if you haven’t seen someone in years, it can feel like an obligation to invite them. But it doesn’t have to be that way—the decision is very personal.

Talk with your parents and decide whether you want a VIP Quinceañera—one where you only invite the people you truly want there, the ones you love and who love you.

If someone who wasn’t invited asks about it afterward, there’s no need to feel awkward. Honesty is always best. For example:

• "Well, since we haven’t seen each other in a few years, we thought maybe you had forgotten about us."
• "It was a very small, private event for close family and a few friends."

Below, we’ve put together a helpful guide to make it easier to decide who’s in and who’s out on your Quinceañera guest list.

When you're unsure about sending someone an invititation, try going through this questionnaire:

• Have you spoken to this person in the last twelve months?
• Is this person related to a close family member?
• Have they invited you to important family events?
• Will not inviting them cause some drama?
• Do your parents insist on having them? (remember that your parents’ opinion is important)
• Do you like them?
• Are they nice to you?

Go through these questions with your parents as you create your guest list. Most importantly, respect the decisions made and approach the process with maturity.